Alabama Divorce & Family Law Attorney Blog : Birmingham Divorce Lawyer & Attorney : Eversole Law Firm : Serving Birmingham, Montgomery, Mobile Alabama

In these cash-strapped times many spouses going through divorce are asking the same question: Will I be able to receive any Alimony payments? It’s a fact that the majority of alimony awards go to the wife. As an Alabama divorce attorney and family law lawyer, I am always oncerned that my clients receive their fair share of the marital assets as part of a divorce settlement. Whether you live in Hoover or Florence, Tuscaloosa, Bessemer or Homewood, your concerns will likely be the same.

In difficult economic times, alimony and child support can both be a function of an ex-spouse’s earning power. Alimony itself is a payment from one former marital partner to the other and is usually paid on a monthly basis. It is ordered by the court as continuing support for one of the former spouses following a divorce.

You should remember that alimony is a separate and distinct payment from any other kind of divorce-related payments, such as child support. As with most aspects of divorce in Alabama, the payment of alimony is decided by a divorce judge and is determined solely by the discretion of the court. In fact, alimony payments are decided based on the specifics of the individual divorce case and the needs and means of the respective parties.

Unfortunately for the divorcing spouses, there is no fixed rule that can be applied to the setting of alimony payment, or even if alimony is justified as part of a divorce settlement. Therefore, the determination of an alimony payment, if any, is always an open issue until decided by the judge overseeing the case.

Several factors that govern how a divorce court in Alabama will decide if alimony is justified include A) the financial need of the receiving spouse (usually the wife) and the ability of the paying spouse (quite often the husband) to pay; (B) the conduct of the individual parties as pertains to the cause(s) of the divorce; and C) the length of the marriage. In the end, whether or not you receive alimony could have a great impact on your ability to preserve your personal assets going forward.

As always, a good divorce lawyer and family law attorney can assist in a large part when going through the many times painful process of divorce. Having a qualified family law attorney by your side can help when it comes time to make the big decisions that could affect your life and the lives of your children fro some times to come.
 

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One of the more frequent causes of divorce can usually be summed up in one word: Incompatibility. As a divorce lawyer practicing in the Birmingham area, I can say that many divorces are the result of an unpleasant or contentious marital relationship. However, this doesn’t mean that the divorce process or the court proceedings surrounding it must necessarily be fraught with acrimony and bitterness.

While the primary job of a divorce and family law attorney is to fight for his or her client’s best interests, it is important that a lawyer also be compassionate and provide a buffer between the client and the other party. Nothing is gained by getting angry during a divorce action, so this is always something to keep in mind.

Now the question I will pose here is, can there be any such thing as a  friendly divorce? Fortunately for many people, the answer is yes. Because Alabama is a No-Fault (also known as uncontested) divorce state, regardless of whether you live in large cities such as Birmingham and Montgomery, or any of the other smaller cities and towns throughout Alabama, an individual can usually obtain a divorce without too many legal complications.

There is a caveat here: you and your spouse must agree to the terms of the divorce in an amicable and friendly manner. This is critical as any history of domestic violence in a marital relationship could easily derail a friendly divorce and could even make things worse. Therefore, if there is a history of domestic violence it is highly recommended that you retain professional legal counsel when pursuing a No-Fault divorce in Alabama.

Once you and your spouse realize the marriage is over, and if you can get past that initial shock and anger of realizing there is no going back, then you may have a chance to honestly look at a No-Fault divorce for your situation.

This can only happen if both parties act in a mature and responsible manner. Try to keep things on a friendly basis, because these is no reason for anything hostile or antagonistic to happen during this time. A key here is to avoid resurrecting the reasons why you are getting a divorce in the first place. Keep it civil and your chances of getting through the proceedings will improve dramatically.

Frankly speaking, if your differences are irreconcilable, then these individual reasons will only be impediments to achieving an amicable and “friendly” resolution. Keeping this in mind and seeking the services of a qualified and experienced family law and divorce attorney will help you get through the divorce and on to a new and better life for yourself and your family.

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In Alabama, as in other parts of the country, there are certain issues that accompany divorce. As a Birmingham divorce and family law attorney, my office handles all aspects of legal separation, divorce, marital agreements and other legal matters affecting couples in Birmingham and the surrounding area. Anyone with kids who is going through or contemplating a divorce should consider the laws governing custody and visitation rights.

Custody in Alabama
The law provides for three different types of child custody: That of temporary custody, physical custody and, of course, legal custody. In Alabama, the courts typically encourage folks to share responsibility for their children by ordering joint custody whenever practical and physically possible. However, numerous factors must be considered before making this judgment.

It’s important to note that the courts in Birmingham, Montgomery and other cities and towns throughout the state are always able to deviate from the general rule as long as it is in the best interest of the child (or children).

Temporary Custody
This approach to custody, temporary, is exactly what it sounds like. Usually when a couple with children at home files for a divorce, the court will automatically enter and order for temporary child custody. This is just for the duration of the proceedings so that the children’s immediate interests are addressed, but the final custody decision always overrides this order at the conclusion of the divorce. The marital agreement should include the court’s final custody and visitation order.

Legal Custody
The final marital agreement will include a legal child custody order. Joint legal custody means that both parents make the major decisions that affect any children the couple may have. Naturally, the courts look for a cooperative attitude between the parents to ensure that the decisions will be made jointly and in the best interest of the children.

Alabama Joint Custody
An important point to make here is that the State of Alabama has a policy, which is governed by Alabama law that encourages the court to order joint custody in all custody cases, but allows the courts to deviate from that rule if it is in the best of the children.
If it deviates a court wishes to deviate from public policy, the court must state its findings in the record.

These are all practical considerations for any spouse to consider when children are involved. I always encourage people in this difficult time of their lives to consult early with a qualified divorce and family law attorney. A qualified legal expert can explain the various forms of custody, and answer any other questions you may have about divorce, custody or visitation orders.

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For those looking at divorce in the near future, a significant number may also be wondering about the potential custody arrangement for your children. As a Birmingham family law and divorce attorney, I’ve lent my shoulder to many a parent, but it’s the kids that make this job tough. Last week I explained legal custody and joint custody. Right now, I’ll pick up with sole and joint custody to round things out.

Sole Custody
In this scenario, one parent can have either sole legal custody or sole physical custody of a child. In many states, divorce courts are moving away from awarding sole custody to one parent and toward increasing the role a divorced father plays in his children's lives. Even when courts do grant sole physical custody, it is common for both parents to share joint legal custody, with the non-custodial parent enjoying a generous visitation schedule.

With this arrangement, the parents make joint decisions about the child's upbringing, with one parent deemed the primary physical caretaker and the other granted visitation rights. Courts hardly ever hesitate to grant sole physical custody to one parent if the other is deemed unfit -- this can include instances of drug or alcohol abuse, when the other parent has a new partner who is unfit for similar reasons, or if there are charges of child abuse or neglect.

I’ve seen many cases where one or the other spouse harbors a great deal of animosity toward the other, but believe me, it's wiser not to seek sole custody unless the other parent causes direct harm to the children. Even in such cases, the courts have been known to simply allow supervised visitation, while still ordering joint legal custody.

 
Joint Custody
Also known as shared custody, joint custody is reserved for parents who don't live together but who share the decision-making responsibilities for, and/or physical control and custody of, their children. Joint custody can exist if the parents are divorced, separated, or no longer cohabiting, or even if they never lived together in the first place. Joint custody can be legal, physical or both.

It is common for couples who share physical custody to also share legal custody, but not necessarily the other way around. And when parents share joint custody, they usually create a schedule based on their work and housing arrangements as well as the children's needs. If the parents cannot agree on a schedule, the court will impose an arrangement.

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If you’re reading this, you’re probably facing divorce. More than likely, you have at least one child and you’re worried how much time you’ll get to spend with him or her after the divorce. It may not be much comfort, but you’re not alone -- each year more than one million couples on average get divorced nationwide.

From the standpoint of a Birmingham divorce and family law attorney, I can tell you there are several ways to go with custody. You should learn the difference between each type so you know going forward which is the best for your situation. I’ll explain two types today: legal custody and physical custody. We’ll save sole custody and joint custody for another time.

Legal Custody
As a parent with legal custody, you would have the right -- as well as the obligation -- to make all-important decisions about your child's upbringing. This includes choices pertaining to schooling, religion, and medical care, among others. In many states, courts typically grant joint legal custody, which means that both parents share in the decision-making process.

Remember that if you share legal custody with the other parent and you exclude that person from the decision process, your ex can ask the court to enforce the joint custody agreement. The court won’t fine you or send you to jail, but the episode will more than likely create additional friction between you and your former spouse, which is not going to help your kids, who should be foremost in your mind.

If the exclusion is based on some deeper issues (such as a history of abuse, etc.), you can ask the court to change the custody agreement and grant you sole custody. Be aware, however, that most states will usually lean toward joint legal custody, unless you can persuade the court otherwise. This is where a good divorce attorney can really come in handy.
 

Physical Custody
A grant of physical custody gives a parent the right to have a child live with him or her. Some states will award joint physical custody to both parents when the child spends significant amounts of time with both parents. In cases where the child lives primarily with one parent, and has visitation with the other, the parent with whom the child primarily lives will usually have sole physical custody, with visitation rights granted to the other parent. This works best if the parents live close by, which also helps to reduce children’s stress levels by allowing them to maintain a somewhat normal routine.
 

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